Bye, Babe

By Secondhand Karl on February 28th, 2009

RIP, Lisa

G’nite Lisa. Thanks for the laughs, even the ones that hurt.


46 Responses to “Bye, Babe”

  1. aka_monty on February 28, 2009 12:32 am
  2. martymankins on February 28, 2009 12:37 am

    So very sad. Thanks for posting, Karl. I left a post on her blog tonight.

    Sad for the loss, but her pain is now over.

    martymankins’s last blog post..Distractions

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  3. Ginger on February 28, 2009 12:40 am

    *hugs*

    Ginger’s last blog post..Thankful on This Thursday

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  4. Dave2 on February 28, 2009 12:47 am

    Amen.

    Dave2’s last blog post..Dextromethorphan

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  5. Little Miss Sunshine State on February 28, 2009 12:47 am

    Karl-I think the definition of a true friend is the one that walks toward you when every one else is walking away.

    What you did for Lisa was true and brave and hard. Something we hope we never have to do.
    Thank you for keeping us updated. I have been saying prayers for her family.

    You make a great friend.

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  6. B.E. Earl on February 28, 2009 12:52 am

    Karl – in my thoughts tonight. So sorry for your loss, man.

    B.E. Earl’s last blog post..A couple of things

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  7. Foo on February 28, 2009 12:53 am

    I knew it was coming and I still can barely catch my breath through tears. What a great photo and memories you can hold onto forever. Huge hugs to you and everyone else.

    Foo’s last blog post..Doggy Drama 101

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  8. NYCWD on February 28, 2009 12:54 am

    While it hurts to let her go… I take solace in knowing she isn’t in pain anymore… and in a far better place than I.

    It is, afterall, what it is.

    NYCWD’s last blog post..Believe

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  9. Kerry on February 28, 2009 1:12 am

    I wish there were words or some great perils of wisdom to offer.
    I’m sorry for your loss Karl. It makes me sad but I also know the suffering and pain and that’s the only thing that helps knowing she is in a better place..I know it is what it is but dang it.Your in my thoughts.

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  10. shiny on February 28, 2009 1:26 am

    What a wonderful lady.

    *hugs*

    shiny’s last blog post..Steps

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  11. Amkii on February 28, 2009 1:56 am

    Thank you for keeping us updated. She will be missed by so many.

    Rest In Peace, Lisa.

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  12. BlondeBlogger on February 28, 2009 3:28 am

    I hope it brings you some comfort that you brought so much joy to Lisa’s life, even til the end. *hug*

    BlondeBlogger’s last blog post..Be Free, My Friend

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  13. Dawn on February 28, 2009 6:49 am

    She will always be remembered with love.

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  14. Robin on February 28, 2009 6:52 am

    ::hugs::

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  15. Sarah on February 28, 2009 8:03 am

    So very sorry.

    Lots of love to you and to Lisa’s family.

    Sarah’s last blog post..Basket Case

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  16. Lala on February 28, 2009 8:18 am

    Thinking of how tough this must be for you. Take care of yourself.

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  17. Kathleen on February 28, 2009 8:52 am

    just wanted to say peace and thank you. that’s all really.

    peace…

    Kathleen’s last blog post..Grief Time

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  18. kapgar on February 28, 2009 8:58 am

    Karl, I know you hate death and everything about it. But I wanted to thank you for putting aside your personal aversion for the sake of keeping us all informed on Lisa’s ongoing fight when she could no longer do so on her own.

    You’re a good man, Karl.

    kapgar’s last blog post..Dream until your dream come true…

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  19. Blondefabulous on February 28, 2009 9:35 am

    Amen.

    Blondefabulous’s last blog post..Oh The Places You’ll Go…. For Lisa.

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  20. LVGurl on February 28, 2009 10:12 am

    She’s in God’s hands, and at peace. I pray for her young daughters and her husband. They will see her again!

    I pray for your strength, too, Karl. You’re a good man.

    LVGurl’s last blog post..Later days

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  21. Heather on February 28, 2009 10:15 am

    :-( Glad to know she is at peace. Thinking of you and all those who ache in her absence. *hugs*

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  22. Sybil Law on February 28, 2009 10:32 am

    :( :(

    Sybil Law’s last blog post..20. Really?!

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  23. Five Husbands on February 28, 2009 11:04 am

    Karl -thank you for letting everyone. My heart goes out to you too – you are a good friend and a good man.

    Five Husbands’s last blog post..Rethinking Love

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  24. Lisa O on February 28, 2009 11:15 am

    Karl – I am so terribly saddened that you lost your dear friend Lisa – you (and Lisa’s family) now have a new angel in Heaven looking out for you.
    That being said I know how hard this is for you and want you to know I continue to pray for you daily.
    Hugs

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  25. DefendUSA on February 28, 2009 11:21 am

    “To touch the soul of another human being is to walk on holy ground.” (covey)

    She touched so many.
    You are in my thoughts, too.

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  26. Tracy on February 28, 2009 11:42 am

    I’m so sorry. I will be keeping you and Lisa’s family in my thoughts today.

    Tracy’s last blog post..My road-trip mix tape

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  27. WhyMommy on February 28, 2009 11:53 am

    Thanks for letting us know, Karl, and for updating her blog.

    I will miss her greatly.

    WhyMommy’s last blog post..News from Clusterfook

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  28. Amanda Magee on February 28, 2009 12:23 pm

    I am so sorry for the loss, but believe all the people who’ve talked about the relief from pain. Sending profound wishes for healing for Lisa’s family and friends.

    Amanda Magee’s last blog post..Dreadtime

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  29. Cindy on February 28, 2009 1:56 pm

    Karl, I’m so sorry to hear about Lisa’s death. Big hugs, dear.

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  30. Pooba~ on February 28, 2009 6:11 pm

    Karl… what do you think of having a million photos of Lisa on her web site… anything you can get your hands on… baby, toddler, teen, marriage, babies, life of Lisa…????

    That would really be a tribute !

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    Secondhand Karl Reply:

    @Pooba~, Sounds like a doable project down the line.

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  31. DefendUSA on February 28, 2009 6:49 pm

    Karl…
    All day thinking of Lisa. Her Dad posted a beautiful thing about ships. My husband put on the coolest of music mixes for me…oddly, he loves covers of his favorite songs…I heard four renditions of “Wild horses” and I just cried every time. And i cooked my sorry ass off as if that was going to make a difference. Every song seemed to have something to do with Lisa. My eyes are puffy. They hurt, my heart hurts and I never met her in person.
    Hope you are doing okay.

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  32. Janelle on February 28, 2009 9:08 pm

    ((hugs))

    Janelle’s last blog post..So. Tired.

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  33. mikkie on February 28, 2009 9:17 pm

    Thanks, Karl, for what you’re doing for Lisa and her family. Your actions are the very definition of the word “friend”. Hugs to you for that.

    mikkie’s last blog post..Lisa’s Gone…

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  34. hello haha narf on February 28, 2009 10:36 pm

    so very sad.

    hello haha narf’s last blog post..There Are No Words

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  35. Nina on February 28, 2009 11:50 pm

    Thank you, Karl, for everything.

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  36. Winter on March 1, 2009 12:26 am

    Despite where I work, I never have the right words during these times. Sending you big hugs.

    Winter’s last blog post..In God’s Garden

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  37. Maggie on March 1, 2009 1:05 am

    I’m so very sorry, Karl. So sorry.

    Maggie’s last blog post..How to Help Feed Animals For Free

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  38. Maggie on March 1, 2009 1:05 am

    I’m so very sorry, Karl. So sorry.

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  39. Kyra on March 1, 2009 6:59 am

    I’m sorry Karl. :(

    Kyra’s last blog post..In My Neighborhood

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  40. Musing on March 1, 2009 9:32 am

    The world has lost a beautiful soul. May she forever rest in peace.

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  41. Been there, Done that on March 1, 2009 11:08 am

    Karl,
    I only know you through your blog. It’s obvious however that you are a true friend and a good companion. You have made us all better people by sharing Lisa’s life with us. Thank you.
    Lynn

    Been there, Done that’s last blog post..To thong or not to thong

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  42. Secondhand Karl on March 1, 2009 4:58 pm

    Thanks, everyone. I appreciate the kind words. I just posted Lisa’s funeral arrangements on her blog.

    http://clusterfook.com/2009/03/01/lisas-funeral-arrangements/

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  43. RIP Lisa, aka “Clusterfook” « GingerSnaps on March 1, 2009 5:04 pm

    [...] to Add: Karl just posted the funeral arrangements as well as information on how to make a donation to [...]

  44. BOSSY on March 1, 2009 9:13 pm

    So sad, so sorry.

    BOSSY’s last blog post..Yet Another Little Known Fact.

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  45. suze on March 3, 2009 12:44 pm

    I’m so sorry for the loss of your friend Karl.

    suze’s last blog post..so, here’s the thing…

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